Category: Mind

When we genuinely care about each other, there comes a social curiosity that creates our relationships.

Holding a secret can cause suffering due to the shame and guilt we place upon ourselves.

Offering advice is a form of control. When we give advice that no one asked for, we are either trying to control the person’s actions, the outcome, or the person’s emotions.

Every time there’s a call for unity, unity is not what is being asked. We are really asking for conformity. Unity needs no call.

I’ve seen plenty of dating profiles say that they aren’t looking to be someone’s therapist. Doesn’t that mean they aren’t looking for love?

It’s really hard not to be defensive in the face of adversity. The biggest solution to this problem is the awareness that it happens.

We think with dualistic minds, believing something has to be one way or another. This is what typically gets us into trouble.

What does it mean to be accountable? It might be a way to show that one person is better than the other. A way to guilt our fellow people

We do our best to try to avoid suffering, but the very thing we don’t want to feel is the thing that makes us alive.

Why is there always a need to be right? Is it possible to not care about facts in order to remove the shame and guilt of being wrong?